I have a colleague at school, JJ, who is our one and only History teacher. He sees every student in the school every year (two grade levels during semester 1 and the others during semester 2). JJ is no-nonsense, enthusiastic, creative with the kinds of lessons he teaches, brings the real world into his classroom, and his students love him. In my first year of teaching, after a humanities department meeting about increasing the rigor of our instruction, we walked out and JJ said, "They don't remember how this works. It goes Relationships, Relevance, Rigor, in that order."
That little nugget of wisdom is not only true, but has become the cornerstone of my teaching philosophy. And, it seems, that of Dr. Michael Wesch as well. I related to Wesch--I spend the first couple of months of the school year having one on one conversations with my students, just 5 minutes while everyone else is preparing for the day, reviewing, or doing a quickwrite. We talk about anything EXCEPT for school stuff. It has become one of my best teacher tools, and lays a foundation from the start that WHO they are is the most important first step. Relationships, Relevance, Rigor, in that order.
Wesch believes that students bring gifts that are not always seen at first. I recognize the story of his sleeper. I have had those in my classroom as well. He knew that discipline and punishment were not necessarily the right call, he sought first to understand what was going on. By putting the relationship first, he was able to see the learner that was laying dormant (thank you, Sir Ken Robinson), encourage and support him, gave him space and the opportunity to show his learning and expertise in his way, and he found success. His approach hits all the marks of Relationships, Relevance, Rigor, in that order.
Wesch understands that learning is not finite, there is not a finish line to education, and when its done right, with intentionality, students return to the learning again and again, not unlike Baby George.
